Here Are Great Tips On How To Truly Win Your Woman's Heart

Are you having problems with gaining the heart of the woman you love? Have you tried all your best possible methods of gaining their heart, trust and yet not working out? Hopefully, this article might solve your issues.

Welcome to the 21st century; an era where building a relationship is as tasking as getting a good girl for a serious relationship. Paraventure you get a good lady, gaining her heart is another problem.

Guys, it is of no doubt that most ladies in this era lack morals, respect and home etiquettes as compared to those of the 20th Century.

In the 20th Century, parents pray most times for their daughters in respect of a good, responsible husband but in this century, this prayer is the reverse because "THE GOOD HAS TURN BAD WHILE THE BAD HAS TURN GOOD."

Nevertheless, amongst them we still have some "house materials" with good moral upbringing and a very high self esteem. Now the question is, how do we get them? This kind of ladies don't take shit and they are very hard to get.

Guys you need to be brave and have self-confidence and not over-confidence because over-confidence kills faster and also spoil relationships. At your first meeting be smart, introduce yourself, get to know her, start a little conversation and get to read her responses and body language if it states "I feel cool with you" or "this guy is dull and not smooth".

If there is probability of meeting her again, don't be too forward, your previous chat and her body responses will lead the way. Don't be too forward in requesting for her contact details. Just stay cool with her.

If there is no probability of meeting her again,I will advice you to try your luck by asking her contact politely and if she doesn't,Na your luck oooooooo.

If you succeed in exchanging contacts, it is advisable you be reasonable about it. Don't rush by disturbing her with calls and texts. As a matter of fact studies have shown that it is not advisable you call or text her that same day you got her contact. At least there must be an interval of 24 hours before doing so.

I think the mistake we guys makes the most is not taking our time to understand the lady we are dealing with. Don't come on too strong at the early stage. Let the relationship develop at its own pace. Coming on too strong at the early stage will almost certainly creep her out. Let the feelings gradually develop and get stronger towards her as you go on with the relationship together.

Once you guys understand each other and you both can see that the relationship is waxing strong and stronger, I think the next step is for you to make her see the man in you. Be the kind of guy she wants. Every lady wants a neat, caring, lovely and intelligent guy.

You can't possess all these characteristics because nobody is perfect but all the same you can still show her the best of out of yourself and still gain her heart. You should also be the kind of guy that would be there for her anytime she needs someone to talk to.

After putting all these in place, I believe she must have been sensing something. Just go straight to the point and let her no how you feel about her.

Be truthful about whatever you say. Let the words come straight from your heart and you must not lie on whatsoever circumstances that might happen because when she later knew you lied, that might be a red card for you. "First impression Last longer".

On a final note, this article if for guys like me Ogbeni Akinremi who finds it difficult to ask ladies out.

So, Casanovas you already have what it takes, ignore it. Lol!!!

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Men Like Criticizing Women They Can’t Get

Do you term yourself beautiful, independent and self owned? Am sure most of you do. Well, you are in trouble there are men who have started portraying a cheap attitude of criticizing women for how they dress, their hair(Weaves) and mostly if you say no to them.  I really don’t know where this species of men come from or whether they did not evolved fully. Am not saying that all men do but there are some with those funny behaviors.

If a man criticizes you about about your figure or height then this is just one idle person who needs to find a job. I personally don’t understand why a man who does not own you or even know you should take time to analyze how you look. Men have the mentality that they can get away with anything they want to say, but allow me to say that the moment you open your mouth to criticize a woman who you think is “fat” remember your mum was once there!

There are also those men who will take time to criticize your fake hair, yes it may be fake but some can’t even afford it. Most hate because they wish their women looked you or maybe they just can’t afford it. Okay many men might dislike weaves but that does not mean that they have the right to criticize someone just because they don’t like it.

Independent women are the top criticized by men, this is because men know its hard to crack a woman who is stable. If a man offers to host you for a lunch date then you suggest it’s better to split the bill this bruises his ego. Because  he had it all planned out on how you would return the favor. Now that he knows you are capable of taking care of yourself he will take it too personally and start criticizing you with things like “She thinks she can run the world” or “Shes just a gold digger”.

In case you said no to a guy from your office then you might have declared war upon yourself. Every time you are in the office he will want to criticize your short suites or tight office trousers. This men still live in the world where they believe women can not say no to them thus will want to make your life miserable, some may even stop talking to you(like really!). Men should know that this silly behaviors don’t look good on them

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Men! Would You Like To Take Such Ladies Home To Your Parents?

Beauty ladies have currently changed their mode of dressing. Some of the them have changed or the best while the rest??? Have no words. Here are some photos of some  Women dress code. Men, would you take one of these ladies for an introductory visit to your parents??? **Comments**

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Man Stuck in married Woman While Having S*X

Below is a video of a man who got stuck in a married woman’s vayjayjay while they were having s*x at a guest house in Huruma. The woman’s husband sought the services of a witch doctor to ensure that his wife stays faithful.

Watch the video below: 

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How to Orgasm Just as Often as Your Guy Does

Slow him down and speed yourself up for mind-blowing sex every. Single. Time.

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Walk down the sexual-health aisle of any pharmacy and you'll instantly notice the latest crusade in the intimacy industry: helping men last longer and women climax quicker. A slew of desensitizing products promises to cool your man's jets so he doesn't pop off as soon as you start going at it. And right next to these are female-arousal formulas that claim to get you to the brink of pleasure faster than you can say "That's the spot."

While many of these products may be snake oil, the problem is real: The average man takes about four to 10 minutes to orgasm during intercourse, according to a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Compare that with the roughly 13 minutes the average woman needs to get off during sex (if she can at all), and you're left with plenty of unsatisfied couples.

So what can you do to balance the scale? Enlist your guy and try these tricks to balance out your O speeds.

Before Sex
Do: Order oysters or red meat at dinner. These are high in zinc, a nutrient that can increase testosterone in the body, which is key for upping blood flow to the vagina, according to a Boston University study. But suggest your guy opt for the spinach salad: It's rich in magnesium, which can help keep blood vessels dilated (and his hard-on strong).

Don't: Overdo it on the alcohol. While one round can loosen you both up, "excessive amounts can decrease your ability to perform, or prevent your guy from having an erection to begin with," says Fisch. Cut yourselves off after one or two glasses.

Do: Flirt. Heavily. Remember how your head has to be in the arousal game? Try to shun thoughts about work and your to-do list, and instead, focus on playfully touching and kissing your partner, suggests Streicher.

Don't: Sit on the couch. A study in Annals of Behavioral Medicine found that exercise significantly increased genital arousal in women with sexual dysfunction, thanks to greater sympathetic nervous system activity. So take a brisk walk with your guy post-dinner, or plan to get it on post-gym session.

During Sex
Do: Be selfish during foreplay. Unlike men, women are capable of having multiple O's (finally, a win for the XX set!). Have your guy perform oral or use a vibrator on you to get you off first. Odds are, he'll happily oblige.

Don't: Discount a condom. "If there's less friction for men, they're likely to last longer," says Fisch. A wrapper will add an extra layer between you and him—hence, a slight decrease in penile sensation.

Do: Get into the coital alignment position. Once your guy shifts up from missionary so that the base of his penis hits your clitoris, rock back and forth together. Or get on top and push your sensitive areas against his pubic bone.

Don't: Focus on the clock. It can make you anxious and further delay your orgasm, says Fisch. Instead, play some tunes to put your mind at ease, and zero in on every sensation.

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The Size of Your Vagina: Is It Normal?

Find out how your fine china measures up.

While there's tons of info out there to help you figure out if your breasts are normal (not to mention visual evidence), vaginas are pretty mysterious. It’s difficult to get solid facts about your lady-garden. So we turned to Brook McFadden, M.D., assistant professor in the division of female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery at The Ohio State University, to get the scoop.

The thing that makes it hard to figure out how you compare: Barely anyone has studied va-jay-jay sizes. McFadden, whose focus is on how vulva measurements can influence body image, is on a mission to change that. In her most recent research, she replicated scientist Jillian Lloyd’s study "Female genital appearance: normality unfolds" from the May 2005 issue of the British Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology. It measured the private parts of 50 women who were going to the gynecologist for reasons other than pelvic dysfunction. To build on that research, McFadden studied 168 women, median age 57 years, using the same technique as Lloyd—so the scientific world can start to bank important information about women’s bodies. Here’s what the abstract of her study, which appeared earlier this year in Journal of Minimally Invasive Gynecology, has to say about what's up down there (the full study text isn't available yet since it hasn't been published).

Your Labia Minora

These are the smaller, inner lips that surround your vaginal opening. When it comes to width, McFadden (who prefers her research be noted in centimeters) found that the left labia minora was an average of 2.1 centimeters wide, with a range of 0.4 to 6.4 centimeters. The right was an average of 1.9 centimeters wide, with a range of 0.3 to 7.0 centimeters. And how long were they? The left labia minora was an average of 4.0 centimeters long (about the size of a baby carrot) with a range of 1.2 to 7.5 centimeters, while the right labia minora was an average of 3.8 centimeters long and ranged from 0.8 to 8.0. Notice anything interesting there?

For starters, labia minora come in wildly different lengths from woman to woman. Second, the two sides aren’t the same! “There is a statistically significant difference between the left and right labia minora, which shows that it’s normal if yours are different sizes,” says McFadden. The only time you should really worry about yours is if you experience a lot of chafing or rubbing to the point where you become uncomfortable. “That’s the time to go in and get evaluated,” says McFadden. If you’re considering a surgical labia modification for cosmetic reasons, researchers don’t even know if it improves self-image. “There’s no valid data on that, so it’s a very controversial topic,” says McFadden.

Your Labia Majora

These are like the parentheses around your labia minora. As the outer lips, they bookend the awesomeness that is the rest of your external reproductive anatomy. The participants’ labia majora were both an average of 8.1 centimeters long (about the size of a bottle of nail polish), with a range of 4.0 to 11.5 centimeters. As youget older, your labia minora and majora both become smaller, according to the abstract. Interesting, right?

Your Clitoris

Much like the rest of your anatomy, there’s a pretty broad variation when it comes to yourpleasure button. In McFadden’s study, clitoral width ranged from 0.2 to 2.5 centimeters with an average of 0.8. Participants had a clitoral length of anywhere from 0.4 to 4.0 centimeters, with an average of 1.6 centimeters (a bit smaller than the button on your jeans). One especially interesting finding is that “increased clitoral width was associated with likelihood of orgasm during intercourse,” says the abstract. So if you’re hitting the jackpot almost every time, you may have been blessed with a wider clitoris than women who have an easier time getting off in other ways.

Your Vaginal Canal
McFadden’s findings on the vaginal canal haven’t been presented yet, but in the meantime, she thinks it makes sense to follow the guidelines for length from the 2005 study. They found that the average length of a vagina is 9.6 centimeters (about the length of a tube of lip gloss), while the range is between 6.5 and 12.5 centimeters. As for the width, the most recent research is from a 1995 (yes, seriously!) paper in Obstetrics & Gynecologycalled “Vaginal anatomy and sexual function.” Still, even though it isn’t recent, McFadden is comfortable with its assertion that the range for vaginal diameter is 2.1 to 3.5 centimeters. “One thing to note is that only two women with diameters of 2.1 were sexually active, and both had pain with intercourse,” says McFadden. Unless you’re experiencing pain with sex or an inability to use tampons or even get your period, you likely fall into the normal range for both width and length. And of course, your vagina’s width and length adjust during events like intercourse and birth to better accommodate what your body’s dealing with. 

The bottom line is that unless you’re experiencing some kind of discomfort or interruption of sexual function, it’s likely your goods fall in the regular range. While outside influences can affect whether you think you’re "normal," chances are everything you’ve got looks fine and is in good working condition. The abstract even concludes that while measurements vary from woman to woman, "they do not correlate with body or genital self-image." Still not sure everything checks out down there? Schedule a chat with a doctor. That’s what they’re there for, after all!

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What Men ALWAYS Notice About You During Sex

Hint: The fact that your breasts are slightly uneven didn’t make the list.

First off, the things we don’t notice: if your nails are chipping, your elbows are dry, or you have an ingrown hair somewhere along your bikini line. These are details that generally sail right past us. We’re more inclined to notice the big-picture behaviors that give us clues about whether we have serious chemistry. Are the sparks flying? Are we turning you on? Are you genuinely excited to be naked right now? These questions are important to men, and here’s what we look for to find answers.

1. Your Initiative
If we’re doing all the work and you’re just sort of hanging out to see what’s going to happen next, we’re going to think you’re not all that interested. So show a little excitement, eh? Take the lead in unbuckling or unclasping something. Roll us over, and get on top. Help us make this moment awesome.

2. The Way Your Body Moves
If you’re stiff, it puts a chill on the moment. We wonder if there’s a problem or if you’re feeling self-conscious. But if you’re revved up and sensual, that turns us on. We want to feel your body writhe against us. We want your chest to press against ours, to feel your thigh slide up between ours. The more you engage your entire body in the moment, the more we feel like you’re excited to be with us.

3. Your Eyes
Are you looking deeply into ours? Are you checking out our freshly naked bodies? Both options are good. What makes us uncomfortable is if you’re looking down (are you having doubts?), checking out your own body (feeling self-conscious?), or gazing off to the wall or ceiling (just bored?). So make sure your eyes aren’t telling us something you don’t want them to. Let us know you’re pumped to be here with us.

4. Your Breath

No, I’m not talking about whether it stinks (although—let’s hope it doesn't!). I’m talking about how it sounds. Is it heavier than usual? Similarly, is your voice deeper? These clues tell us whether you’re genuinely aroused. You don’t need to play it up by panting like you just ran a 5-K or trying to mimic the deeper notes on an organ. But if you’re getting into it, let it show. Let us feel your breath against our neck, whisper something sexy into our ear, let us know you can’t wait for what’s about to happen. Our arousal feeds off of yours, so don’t be afraid to be visibly turned on.

5. If You’re Freshly Waxed or Wearing Expensive Lingerie
Hey—no judgment if you're not. But the prep work implies that you were thinking about sex, and we’re all for that. After all, so were we. Glad we’re on the same page here!

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